Date Me
Imagine waiting another Valentine’s day to celebrate that special someone. Imagine the time you both miss out on bonding with each other, when you skip out on what could arguably be one of the most important aspects of a maintaining a balanced and healthy love life. Dating in a relationship is so important to keep the spark going, no matter how long or short you’ve been together. It doesn’t necessarily have to be anything lavish or bank- breaking. Sometimes, even something as little as getting Ice cream on a hot day, or picking up a few groceries together could do the trick.
Dating your partner also rekindles the passion and tightens the bond you both already share. It’s a chance to communicate intentionally and catch up on real life scenarios you typically would miss on a normal day. Make it a priority to go out together and enjoy each other’s company. Talk about the accomplishments, the challenges and the little moments in between. A lot of times, we forget to really sit down and have meaningful and insightful conversations with our partners. We are so caught up in our individual lives, that we miss out on spending real quality time together.
Think of it as an exclusive experience shared between the both of you, each time you go on a date. The intimacy that is experiencing life with someone, while simultaneously remembering to make them a top priority, is unmatched. It’s a love language, its considerate and its the physical evidence of your affection for them. Not only is dating your significant other a chance to experience new things together, but also a chance to build and strengthen every aspect of your relationship. Don’t limit yourselves to one off - over calculated and carefully thought out dates, only to cross out date nights from your monthly calendar. Date with the intention of spending quality time together. Date because it’s a solid reminder as to why you chose each other in the first place.
It’s not a walk in the park to find the right one, and it’s certainly not easy to keep the butterflies coming. However, with the right mindset and a bit of dedication, the sky is your limit. Remember to make dating a regular part of your love life, whether you are both getting to know each other, in a committed relationship or married. Make it happen! If anything, it shows just how much you appreciate your partner, when you take time out to plan some alone time with them. Keep dating and never stop because, couple’s who date consistently are happier, and happier couples make for the best relationships.
Signed,
The Date Connoisseur.